18 Emotional Affair Signs You Probably Missed Out!
Nowadays, as close as the two lovers may be, it’s difficult for them to spend 24/7 with each other. Other than one or two days in a week, they spend most of the time with their friends or with their colleagues. And as normal human beings, we like to be appreciated and loved at all times of the day. On the whole, the good times you share with your colleagues or friends may result in why you enjoy at your workplace.
As time goes on, you will start to enjoy the other person’s company even though your lover is present in the picture. At first, it may start when you’re bored and you don’t have your lover around to talk to you. And after sometime, the same person begins one of the biggest part of your life. [ Read: 10 Signs Your Partner is Having An Affair ]
Opposite gender partner and stranger-to-you-partner will conquer your life and you may have a good chance of an emotional affair.
Emotional affair is harmless if you come to think of it. It is just mere flirting if you take it that ways. You experience the same flutter of the heart when you’re in love!
Try and use these 18 signs to discover whether you are into the trap of this emotional affair or not!
- The excitement!
You feel very excited when you meet this friend or share any of your thoughts with them. Be it any gossip of your coworker or reviews about any movie you just watched. [ Read: 7 Ways To Start Healing Your Relationship After an Affair ]
- You tend to share your secrets!
You must have noticed that you can’t hide anything from this friend. You tell all your deep down secrets to this friend of yours. You may share those secrets too that your partner doesn’t know about. You feel way more connected with them.
You are addicted to this person. Both of you get excited to meet each other after a long weekend. You feel that you’ve missed out on many happy moments when you’re not with this friend. [ Read: Simple Expectations of A Girlfriend From Her Boyfriend ]
- Physical attraction!
You are physically attracted to this friend. Even when you sit close to each other, you can sense that some part of the body is touching each other.
- You tend to impress!
You always notice that you keep a watch on your words when you meet this person. You tend to impress them by being in your best clothes every time you meet them. [ Read: 7 Signs – He Loves Me Or Loves Me Not? ]
- Secret soul mate!
You feel you have found your soul mate in this friend. He understands you in a way nobody else can. You actually follow their suggestions or try to fit in how they like stuff.
- You spend most of the time together!
You just love talking to this friend. You can easily spend hours and hours talking to this person. Your preference builds up to change from your partner to this friend. [ Read: 5 Ways to Stay Loyal in a Relationship ]
- Downplaying technique!
You try to make a conscious effort to downplay the activities of this friend in front of your partner. Mostly, you try not to speak avoiding talking about him. Even if he’s on your mind, still you try not to mention his name in front of your partner.
- You avoid talking about your partner!
You and your friend try to avoid talking about each others partners and concentrate more on how good you both share the bond. [ Read: 6 Strong Signs It’s Time to Let Go ]
- A secret wish!
You secretly wish that how would the circumstances be if you met this friend earlier than you met your partner. You wonder how your life would have been if he were in your life rather than your partner.
Your friend emerges in your fantasies all the time. Even if you are intimate with your partner, you may think how good would it be if your friend be at your partner’s place. [ Read: The little things – So BIG in Relationships ]
You make sacrifices for this friend. You may sacrifice even the important work just to spend sometime with this friend. You may not realize this fact but you put your life aside just to spend some quality time with this friend.
You may get compliments from all the other directions, but you may specifically give importance to what this friend has to say. You actually take their compliments seriously. [ Read: 6 Ways To Handle A Passive Partner ]
- Flirting comes naturally!
You may not realize this thing but flirting comes naturally when you spend time with this person. You have a lot of flirty conversations when nobody’s around.
- You love it when the conversations move to intimacy!
You love it when somebody initiates and the conversation goes towards a different direction. If you feel something happening to you when you share every detail of the physical intimacy, you may be sure that some kind of emotional affair is present in the air! [ Read: 10 Romantic Love Messages To Text Your Partner ]
- You crave for their attention!
You don’t like it when he/she is busy with some other thing other than spending time with you. You both are not dating each other but you like giving and receiving the attention from each other!
- You really need to talk!
Do you feel that your day is incomplete when you don’t talk to them? Even when you’re on a vacation, do you wonder what your special friend is up to? [ Read: Best Missing You Quotes To Melt Your Partner’s Heart ]
- Your behaviour changes!
There comes a change in your behaviour when you talk to this friend in front of your lover. There is more of awkwardness and formality when you three get together. Otherwise, your behaviour gets entirely different.
These signs don’t lie! You have now got two weapons in hand, either break up with your partner or end this emotional affair.