14 Subtle Signs Your Girlfriend’s Not Over Her Ex
Love is a confusing thing, guys. You know you are sure about your love, but no really! Does she love you really or not? This question can haunt you a lot more if there is an ex involved, and you have every right to question whether your girl is really over her ex or not.
To make things a little simpler, here are a few tell-tale signs that your girl might still be interested in her ex!
- Distant and confused
Does your girl always act a little distant and confused when she is out on a date with you? Is she always pre-occupied and doesn’t really pay attention to the date? If she has been giving you the cold shoulder more than often, chances are she is still thinking about her ex. [ Read: 15 Signs She’s Leading You to Nowhere on the Relationship Path! ]
- Gets chatty
Is she always texting and calling her ex? If she is always chatting up with her ex, every chance she gets, the sign couldn’t be any clearer! If she is over him, why does she get so bothered about him? She should be focusing all her energies on you instead of wasting them on her ex!
Is she still living in the memories? Of him and her together? Does she keep visiting the past every now and then? It is all only because she is still not over her ex. If she is still holding on to his gifts, pictures, souvenirs, etc. you should know that she is still not over him. [ Read: 12 Foolproof Ways To Stop Thinking About Your EX And Start A New Life! ]
Does she compare you both? Does she always comment on how different you both are? Comparing your sense of dressing, hair, even body language? When with you, her ex should not even be on her mind. Boy, she is still into him!
- Remembers the dates
Does she remember all the dates from her past relationship? When they met, first went out, had their anniversaries? Could she be any more obvious? [ Read: Living Together Happily – 10 Cohabitation Tips For Couples ]
- Gets jealous
She gets jealous if her ex starts dating someone. She gets jealous when she sees him with other girls. She gets jealous when she sees happy, romantic status posts from her ex!
- On a rebound
If she isn’t treating you like a boyfriend already, question whether you are her rebound love or not! Many times girls simply get into a relationship as a rebound. [ Read: 12 Warning Signs That She Is Just Not Into You ]
- Talks about her ex
Does she talk and rave about her ex all the time? How cool he is, has such a fancy bike, is so much into sports and all that jazz? If yes, she is still not over him.
- Meets him
Does she meet him often? Bumps into him at a party, at the movies or just anywhere? Ever questioned how is that she knows where he will be every time? [ Read: 14 Insights into What Men Want and Need in a Woman ]
- Wants to be friends
Is she always trying to befriend him? Because she wants to be ‘just friends’ with him? Being friends is a spoof because she I still not over him. If the relationship is over and she is not into him, the why subterfuge of being friends?
- Stalks him
Is she on his facebook, twitter, instagram; stalking him all over the internet, chances are she is stalking him in real life as well, because, believe me, she is not over him. Trying to get tabs on what he does, where he goes and who he meets is all wrong. [ Read: 12 Things That Make You A Stalker ]
- Thinks of him
Is she always thinking of her ex? Daydreaming and talking about him all the time. When she is in a relationship with you, shouldn’t she be thinking only about you?
- Is moody
When with you, does she always act moody and distant? Does she get irritated when you bring out the topic of her ex and gets offended easily? Maybe, she is still brooding over her ex! [ Read: 15 Kind of Girlfriends who can Make Your Life a Living Hell! ]
- Tries to establish contact
If she is always trying to get in contact with her ex, trying to get him be friends and add her on his Facebook profile, this is all because she is still interested in him. Trying to get in touch with him constantly points to the fact that she is still not over him.
When one is in a romantic relationship, it is very important to make sure that both the people are committed equally. If even one person is not really invested in a relationship everything just goes downhill. So if your girl is still into her ex, it’s time to call quits!