10 Secret Things Guys Wish Girls Knew About Guys
For a guy, to express his true feelings to a girl is harder than it seems to be. Often, a guy would tend to think that sharing his feelings isn’t worth it. Thus, they tend to be mysterious, but it isn’t impossible for a girl to really figure him out.
Here are 10 secret things guys wish girls knew about them:
- Guys are emotional
Guys cry too, when they’re hurt. They just pretend not to care. They try not to talk about it, and would usually rather let their emotions out when they’re alone. They try to show that they’re unaffected, even by the most adverse situations. The truth is, they try not to portray themselves as weak or needy in any way, but are affected just as much as anyone else. [ Read: 13 Qualities Every Man Secretly Wishes For In His Woman ]
- They get intimidated
‘She is way out of my league’ – is often what a guy tends to think when he meets the girl of his dreams. He would want to talk to her, but is unsure of how she’d react, and thus can’t muster the courage to approach her. Very often, they end up doing nothing at all about their feelings. So if you have a feeling that a guy might like you, and would like to do something about it, ask him!
- Guys need their own space
Guys need time to themselves, a space where they can unwind and think about their joys and sorrows, and deal with their own problems their own way. There will be things that he prefers to deal with alone, and you should respect that. Hence, you should just give him the space he needs. [ Read: 13 Secret Signs Which Will Tell You That Your Boyfriend Is Still Not Over His EX! ]
- Guys don’t like to be interrupted
While watching a movie or playing a game, guys don’t like being interrupted. A guy may or may not like the same kind of movies as you do, and a lot of guys like to spend time with their buddies playing video games. The last thing he’d want is to be interrupted by ‘can we watch something else?’ and ‘you guys and your video games are so boring!’. Respect what a man loves and let him enjoy himself.
- Friends matter to them
A guy’s friends are his life. They’re really important to him, and most of his plans involve them. Thus, if you’re with a guy, you’re going to have to deal with how much they matter to him, and it’s also important to get along with them, because you’ll be seeing them often enough anyway! [ Read: 12 Secret Rules of a Happy Relationship. SHH! ]
- They like to eat
Food is really important to guys. They love to eat. Some people say ‘the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’, and it’s very true in most cases! Even if you aren’t exceptionally skilled in the kitchen, if you cook him a meal or even choose his favourite kind of food when you go out to restaurant, you’ve instantly impressed him. So make sure you know what your man likes to eat!
- They think of the future
Women often think that men are short-sighted, but that’s not always the case. Men may choose to seem lazy and care-free, but there’s a lot more going on in their heads. Men do think of the future, and are usually working to build a promising one. [ Read: 14 Insights into What Men Want and Need in a Woman ]
- They get jealous
Insecurity and jealousy aren’t just girl-things, they happen to guys too. It’s quite possible that there’s someone that your guy doesn’t like you getting too comfortable with or close to, but it’s also highly probable that he chooses not to show it. In the worst of cases, it leads to unpleasant interactions between the 2 guys, but it’s better to avoid such situations and make sure you don’t give your guy anything to lose his temper over!
- They hesitate to make the first move
When a guy likes a girl, he isn’t always confident enough to talk about it. They get nervous, and look for some kind of signal before they make that first move. No matter how confident he might look on the outside, there are butterflies in his stomach! [ Read: 18 Critical Signs to Detect an Unhealthy Relationship! ]
- They seek attention
Guys love attention. Every guy has thought of doing something outrageous to sweep the girl of their dreams off their feet! They love to be appreciated for the hard work that they do, it helps keep up their confidence and self-esteem. So don’t be shy to let your man know how much you appreciate all that he does.
Try to delve deeper into your guy’s mind, find out what’s really going on inside him. If nothing else, it will help you understand him better and that can only be good for a healthy relationship.